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should she come to florida, many many setbacks
im going to florida and i was going to bring my friend along but i was just wondering if it would make it hard on everyone but i dont mean it in a bad way at all shes my best friend. she is 17 im 16 and theres a guy thats 15 and then nineteen 18 year olds. plus she doesnt know all them to well but were all in the same tiny school.
Were driving 14 hours to florida, we will all lay out in the sun most of the time and she is the only one thats black and she doesnt like to she sits with a towel over her even at pools so i would feel too bad, she also is the only vegan so food choices would be hard but im with her everyday im perfectly fine with it i just dono about everyone else. I am the only vegetarian but im not strict enough i would eat a lil meat if i have no other options. Also she isnt responsible at all shes over a year older than me but i take care of her for everything and yea were gonna be partying i dont want her to get hurt. she only drinks, i only smoke. she also cant swim. this would be the best vacation in the world if she could come. i love her to death she is my best friend but i dont want this trip to be a hassle on everyone else.
what do you think i should do? bring her or not? if she does come what are some good destin florida area vegan restaurants? and what do we do about us tanning and on the beach 24/7?
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Invite her. Tell her what you'll be doing. Tell her who is going. I'm sure she'll think of all the possible negatives about the holiday. Tell her if she doesn't want to go then thats fine but then leave the decision up to her. That way she feels included and if she thinks she'll be able to deal with it then you won't feel so responsible when you get there. Good luck x
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You're not responsible for her good time. That's all up to her and what she wants to do with her time. If you really do want her come, invite her. Ask her if she would like on a beach vacation with you. Just be sure to let her know up front that you plan to be planning a lot of time in the sun and by the pool, maybe in a joking way. That way she understands what kind of vacation it is and what kinds of things you'll be doing and she can make her own decision about if its something she would find fun or not. If she goes with you, do your best to release yourself from being her caretaker. She's a big girl, she can do what she likes, and if everyone else is having a good time and she's being cranky then that's on her. But just see what she says about it. She may surprise you. Good luck.
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