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i love him but he’s leaving
so there’s this guy that i’ve liked for the longest time - and he likes me too. we’re not going out - mostly because i’m really unsure of wanting a relationship + i’m also really insecure and never really stable about what i want. there would be, and there still are, times that i don’t think i like him... but recently it’s been mainly liking him. anyways, summers in about a month and he just found out that he’s moving... forever.
when he told me, i didn’t know how to react. of course, i was sad but i just stood still for about 45 minutes and didn’t do anything. anyways... point is he’s moving. and we haven’t even kissed - but we both like each other and our relationship means a lot to me. i have the perfect upcoming opportunities to be alone with him, and besides the fear of awkwardness (because we both know what we’re waiting for... a kiss), what i’m mostly scared of is the fact that he’s moving. it’s happened to me before... falling for a guy and he leaves and leaves me so broken for such a long time. and i don’t want my summer to be a sad one. obviously, whether or not we start a relationship now, i’ll still end up hurt either way because he’s leaving. i’m just scared that if what we have gets any better than it is already... it’ll make me fall harder.
for the longest time i’ve been trying to figure out what i want:
a. to have it better than i do now and expand our relationship BUT get even more hurt when he leaves
b. keep things the way they are now, still get hurt at the end, BUT not as hurt as i would be if i chose option A
c. push him away, distance ourselves so it’ll hurt less when he leave (but this is debatable because i might regret)
i just don’t want to regret anything but i also don’t wanna get hurt in the end.
what should i do?
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i dont think it would be a good idea to go for a kiss. leave it as it is because if you guys kiss it could possible attract you to him more and than he leaves and your left broken. make the most of your time with him. you never know things could change and he might come back. you stay close friends with him and never bring yourself down about him leaving because their can always be away for you guys to reunit plus you have all the amazing time you guys spent together.
Stephy
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okay forget about 'hurt' when he leaves. Have a good time when hes with you and make alot of happy moments. When he leaves you will only have good memories to fall on. You guys can still talk and be friends once he is gone so it doesnt have to hurt so much.
hope this helps
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