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My sister is nice to my man but cant stand me
im 18/female and my sister hates my guts she talks shit about me and my man all the time and i get to the point to her and tell her to stop and ack her age but she tells my man that i start it all the time and be nice to him i dont know what to do he believes me over her but im getting tired of it can someone tell me what i should do
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You need to talk to him about telling your sister to shut the hell up.
As a guy, if a member of my wife's family started badmouthing her, I would quite likely tell them "Shut the fuck up, I will not listen to you speak about my wife like that" and leave the room. Then again, I'm kind of a blunt asshole, but telling her firmly to stop and leaving the room are both actions he should take and is probably unwilling to because it's awkward for him to be in that situation too.
Give him permission. Tell him to ignore her and remove her ability to continue talking if she starts up.
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You need to tell your sister that she has no right
to talk badly about you or your boyfriend seeing as
you both did nothing to her also that she needs to stop making up lies that aren't true and telling your boyfriend i'm sure she doesn't hate your guts seeing as she's your sister but make it clear to her that she needs to stop so she knows your serious & aren't messing around if she doesn't quit it then get your parents involved they'll be able to make her to stop for good tell your parents your
getting tired of it happening & would love if it stopped for good(:
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