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Am i overreacting?
I was talking to my friend in a chat room and she
decides to randomly ask me if i have mental issues
because i act childlish sometimes i guess from what i type and she also said because of my age which is 19 after she said that i felt hurt on the verge of tears like i was going to cry am i overreacting? I'm thinking she didn't think before she typed she apologized and said she didn't mean to be rude but it still hurt
Was what she said a immature comment? How should i
handle this...she's younger then me age 14 after she said that to me i was thinking how could you say that to someone...what should i do?
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Does she know you in person? You can't assume someone is immature by the way they type or act online. As the internet can say one thing and in person can be another.
Remember, She is 14 years old. You are 19 and there is a big age gap and I'm pretty sure at 14 she still has a lot of growing up and maturing to do herself. Sure, It was offensive and hurtful of her to say but remember you are the older one and this is just the talk of a child. If she makes another comment again, Confront her about it and how it's hurtful when she makes remarks about you.
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I don't know?
How do you act when you talk to her?
I suppose there's a point where acting like a child, and acting like your age has a line there.
She don't know you in person does she?
Because you can't really tell how a person is online. You may talk to them, but being with them IN person is a different story.
I'd say, start talking to her more maturely then, or not at all if she is like that.
You said she apologized thats nice, I'd ask her why she even mentioned it to begin with. I mean, is she REALLY sorry? Why'd she say it in the first place then?
But she's 14, and your 19, so your the older one. Just I guess don't talk to her the same way you use to.. Be a little more mature I suppose.
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