Ok so first ill say that I'm a really hot chick no lies or jokes. Guys try to talk to me every day but I turn them down because I have a BF ( boyfriend). But the thing is my BF haven't been around and I get really horny at times and it cause me to masterbate like crazy then I come to think what am I doing I'm to hot for this did I let you notice I'm a mobel at that. So I don't know what to do, should I drop him but then I don't want to just let go cuz sex, or should I hold on and tell him what I want I mean can you think of a mobel masterbating cuz her dude has been gone and she's left horny home realy finning for her man, I think they shouldn't have it like that, guys help me out thanks.
Haha I'm not sure why you're only asking for advice from guys? I'm a girl but hopefully I can help.
Well if you are as attractive as you say and guys talk to you every day it should be pretty easy to find the easy sex. But if that's not what you want then you should try to work it out with your boyfriend. You love hime right? I mean if your just in the relationship for the sex thats not really fair to him.
So I think what you need to do is step back and think what is best for you and your boyfriend. Do you want to be with him for more than the physical? If so, talk to him and tell him how you feel. No one is too hot to feel lonely, and the fact that he's not around for you (not that he's just gone in the sex area) isn't right. If you just want sex, it sounds like that should be easy. But if you want a relationship and sex you can work it out with him, or find a new relationship.
NinjaNeer answered Monday May 3 2010, 4:55 pm: I'm a girl, but I think I can lend a little insight.
Being in a relationship where you don't get to see your boyfriend is difficult. I've done it, and it sucked. My fiance and I have spent 4 months apart every year for the last 4 years. I've also had friends with husbands in the army, and they manage to hold on for years.
There's going to be temptation, especially if you are attractive. Those guys want you for superficial reasons, though, and aren't worth jeopardizing your relationship or giving it up entirely.
You're being unfair to your boyfriend. To consider leaving him over something as superficial as not being able to have sex as often as you'd like is pretty harsh. Models or not, we all have to make sacrifices sometimes for those we care about. If that means self-stimulating instead of sex, so be it! There's also no such thing as too hot to masturbate. It's a perfectly normal thing for people of all sorts to do, and it's safer and more effective than sex with random dudes. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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