I've been dating the same guy for about 3 months now without any problems. Before him i hadn't dated anyone i just had a few crushes one of them being a country boy that i thought i could never be with he wasn't popular i just didn't grow up in the country i wore what some would call a more "punk" look but not to an extreme. I always pictured me and him getting together and me getting to live on a farm like i had dreamed well he moved out when we were Juniors and lives only a half an hour away last year for prom i saw him because he was in my group and have seen him one other time in his truck so now every-time i am in town i seem to be looking into every truck that looks similar im not sure why im looking for him when i have and love my boyfriend.
I have also been having dreams last night i had a dream where i saw him at my graduation party and somehow everyone could tell that i liked him and my boyfriend left me and the guy confessed his love to me.
Does this mean anything or is it just a crush. I have no plans on leaving my current boyfriend i am just wondering what all this means if it even means anything.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shellyagal answered Tuesday August 10 2010, 3:40 pm: Toss the coin in air....and while the coin is in air you will already have your answer. "Love is in the air, everywhere I look around, Love is in the air, every sight and every sound." Try out if the other person loves you the same way as you do. You can send an anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter Search. Your identity will only be disclosed if your crush feels the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box- crush:your email: Email of crush 1 : Email of crush 2 : Email of crush 3 then click Enter. Let the magic of love begin. [ shellyagal's advice column | Ask shellyagal A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Friday May 7 2010, 4:42 pm: Well according to DreamDictionary.com:
"To see your crush in your dream, represents your current infatuation with him or her. If you find yourself thinking about him during the day, then it is understandable that his image will appear in your dream during the night. If you dream of your crush frequently, then your dream maybe be telling you that it is time to let this person know how you feel, especially if you are dreaming of him or her in a good way. Only good things can happen from you telling your crush. Even if he or she is not interested, at least you can move on and stop wasting time on him or her."
ericaoglesby answered Monday May 3 2010, 11:33 pm: i know exactly where you are coming from. i have been in your situation before. i was dating the same guy for 3 years and the other guy was actually my ex from like 4 years back. i feel completely head over heels for my ex again and so i left my boyfriend (this happened twice). i have experienced those dreams that you have had and for me they are not just about a crush. it is more than that. but for your situation, i need more information. things such as has he talked to you before? how did he seem? does he flirt with you? etc ...
This could just be that you have crush and nothing more but if you are thinking and dreaming about another guy other than your boyfriend, i would look at your situation and figure out if you really want to be with your boyfriend or if you feel that there is something better for you somewhere else. hope i helped!! good luck!! :) [ ericaoglesby's advice column | Ask ericaoglesby A Question ]
PaperHeartsX3 answered Sunday May 2 2010, 9:43 pm: To be honest, I think its just a crush. And you wondering "what if." What if you talked to him and started dating and stuff.
Are you honestly happy with your boyfriend? If you are then good. :) If not, that could be why you keep thinking about this other guy too.
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