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Question Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 2:23 am

Hello there this is Brittany's friend, Brianna.
I have a question for you.
Why can't people just rate what they want? does it really matter, seriously?
you say "don't say anything like I rate 5's" Or "I rate high", which is giving people the right to rate 1's, 2's, 3's, 4, and 5's.

don't get mad at people for rating ones when you MAKE it an option.
don't make it an option if you don't want people rating it.
hmm. ever thought of that? probably not.

you're extra lame.
hahahahahaha!

Just to let you know none of youre advice about getting "help" is going to make her go out and look for a counselor. Why? because your opinion doesnt matter to us!
Goodbye now.


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DangerNerd answered Saturday May 1 2010, 3:19 am:
Hello made up friend,

Borderlines don't go out and look for help... there is something wrong with the world, not them, so everybody else has to change to suit them.

Kinda like the way you want the rules changed just for you, when nobody else is having any trouble reading.

As for why the rating is there? Well, it is there to mark people who are deliberately abusive.

As for being mad... Not hardly. I feel sorry for you, and hope that you are able to get this attitude trouble sorted before grown-up life begins.

Can you imagine this: You get a job in an office. One day you staple your hand to some papers, and rather than say: "Ooops, made a mistake here." ... you run around the office screaming: "Why oh WHY did you put staples in the stapler if you didn't want me stapling my hand to papers?!?!"

"This is all (insert someone else you can blame)'s fault! They didn't warn me that if I put a stapler on my hand and pushed down really hard it would hurt!" Well, that is because everyone in the office thought you were smarter than that.

Same deal here. Thousands of users, and you are the only one who is having trouble with the very simple rules we use to protect people here.

We all thought you were smart enough to figure it out, just like everyone else did. Silly as it may be, I still hold out hope that you will calm down and realize there is nothing to get upset about here.

You stapled your proverbial hand to the papers. Don't blame anyone else. Take responsibility for your own actions, and people, perhaps, in time, will respect you as an intellectual peer.

Take care.

DN.

P.S. I dug a little deeper and it looks like you have about a dozen columns here.

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