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first breakup
I'm 17 and have had little flings with guys but never had a real relationship until my most recent one.My boyfriend of 3-4 months broke up with me because he said he didnt feel he liked me as much at that point as he should.I was his first real gf and i did everything for him (even his friends said i did more than any other girl has) and he admitted that i was the most amazing girl he's ever met.I guess after we broke up,we became close friends and hungout quite alot (people thought we were still together!) but he confronted me and said the friends thing isnt working because he feels as though I want more from him and i always bring up past times and he feels bad and doesn't want to hurt me anymore.I want to either get him back or move on...suggestions? I haven't done much ignoring him and all his friends are my friends so its hard to avoid him completely.Has anyone had this issue before?
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I've been through this before, and i know it can be really hard, and sometimes it a bit easy. But you should probably move on. If yall have the same friends you can still have some contact (which I would want if I was you, but that's just me) But maybe if you try moving on you'll find some one better, and maybe even eventually later down the road you and him might get back together, you never know.
I don't know if I helped at all but good luck hope it works out the way you want it to :)
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Moving on would probably best for you to seeing as
he feels that the two of you being friends isn't working out you can't force him to become more then
friends again if he doesn't feel it would work out between you two iv'e never experienced your situation but there's no reason for you to feel discouraged seeing as their's plenty of different boys out there once you do decide to date again things weren't meant to be between you two everything happens for a reason you can't make something that isn't meant to be work try keeping yourself busy that way you'll have less time to think about it & your mind will be focused on other things(:
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