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how to be better "on top"?
recently my boyfriend and i had sex. i wanted to try to be on top, but i wasn't very good at it.
anyone have any tips? thanks.
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my boyfriend is anal about me "Arching my back" enough, because it apparently makes it better.
Also, try facing his feet when on top instead of his face.. for some reason it makes it less pressure because you're not looking straight at his face looking for a reaction.
Hope it helped<3
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I used to be the same way. It bothered me to be on top because i felt i wasnt very good at it. In my experience it gets better with confidence and practice. Now i prefer me being in control on top with my boyfriend rather then the other way around.
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The best way to do this is to have him sit on a chair, couch, or lay in a sitting position. Then you position yourself on top of him, but instead of having your knees on either side of him, "squat" with your feet on either side instead. Then rest your hands on his shoulders for balance. Then just bounce up and down or thrust your hips back and forth, front to back slowly. Either motion works great in this position. Plus he will love being able to see more of the "action" down there. Hope I helped!
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you need to thrust your hips, instead of letting him do the work..which is usually hard when being on the bottom, therefore you need to do alot of the work. Thrust, move up and down. Hope i helped :)
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