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My boyfriend has drifted away
and doesn't support me as much as I need him to.. =/
Sooo, my boyfriend got me pregnant two months ago, we live together with his dad. But ever since I got a thumbs up from the doctors he's just been leaving the house at 11am and usually comes back around 12am... it's around 2:20am now and he still hasn't returned, I'm starting to get worred.. I don't know where he goes and he gets angry when I pry. He hasn't kissed me since the 19th - 20th April =/ He said he couldn't wait to be a father at the start but now he's drifted away..
What can I do? =[
(by the way, I'm from the UK.)
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I agree with the person before me but I also think that you have the right to know what he's up to... ask him if he's worried about what is going to happen and etc,and tell him how you feel too. you are both probably worried/stressed about this and you need to talk to each other about it. have you tried to kiss him? tell him you want to kiss him, and you want to be kissed back.. tell him you need some support, and give him some too.. in relationships you must give and take, in order to take you also need to give though.
good luck with everything! :)
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Sounds like your boyfriend is stressed, and is taking some time to himself for awhile. One thing that you said made me wonder as you didn't list any detail...How old are you?...How old is he? It could be that he might be feeling like he isn't ready to take on fatherhood which it's a little late to be thinking that now. Everyone woman needs support when they are pregnant especially woman who are expecting their first child. It is a bit immature of him to be acting like the pregnancy doesn't exist and taking off for long hours at a time. TALK to him, Sit him down and tell him that you are pregnant and you need his support. As he is in this just as much as you are. If he can't handle the responsibility then that has got to raise questioning on whether he will be a good father to both you and that child. It is responsibility. If he doesn't change his ways and change them fast then I don't know what to tell you but other than I feel sorry for that kid
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