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i found an ex letter on my boyfriends draw:(
i couldnt believe my eyes. there i am talking and laughing with my boyfriend telling him his room was a mess i start putting things back in his underwear draw but suddenly i see a bunch of papers so i start taking them out and lauging at his handwritting suddeny i see a letter all the way at the bottom all folded up real tight i open it up and there it was a letter written to an ex it said Dear evette i miss you, i miss the way you smile, i miss the way we'd talk when we'd stay up i miss hearing you snore(yeah i know) i miss your voice your eyes and talking to you , i miss you so much i really do.. those were some of the things i read i confronted him and he got so nervouse he ripped and threw the letter out the window. i felt so bad i wanted to cry. after i kept searching to see if id find something else turns out he told me he wrote the letter before he met me but how was i to believe him.i found another papper this one said dear ivette with the date august 19 2008 ... we started dating september 16 2008. that girl goes to the same school we do. and it hurt so bad.. i dont know if i shoud believe he wrote that letter on that date.it hurt so bad.why would he keep something like that? weve been together for 1 year and 7 months i found that in january after a year of being together. when i confronted him about keeping the letter he said he didnt know it was there should i believe him? after all him and that girl messed around for 2 years but he says she was nothing but a nasty girl(if u know what i mean) he tells me he hates talking about her but its funny how she brokeup with him on a summer of july and we went out on september when he met me in school..i mean maybe he was so hurt he wanted to show her he can de much better. but a guy whos trying to get back at a gir he wouldnt last with her for very long now would he? at least not 1 year and 7 months. did i mention he has 2 tattoos of me and is planning on getting a third i dont know i am so confused was i he's rebound? yet he fell in love with me? i feel hurt what should i do? hes 19 and im 16 and i do love him but im devastated.hes going to college soon and iljoin him in 1 year if all goes well i love him so much yet i am so confused please help!
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i think you should believe what he says. it sounds like you have no reason not to. the letter was dated before you guys got together and maybe he didnt know it was there. it sounds like hes pretty into you. i could see how it might be hurtful to you because thats your boyfriend and you dont want to think about him loving someone else. but i would just take his word for it and leave it at that. theres no use in getting your self all worked up over something thats in the past. good luck!
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ok, i'm gonna keep this short and sweet...i hope. Look he could've just been trying to get those thoughts out of his head by writing them down, so maybe your over-reacting. Or he could still feel something for her because it looks like you said she left him, so he probably wasn't ready to lose her yet. You never know he could love you more than he loved her and that scares him because he hasn't gotten over her yet. You can't really get advice on here because what you really need to do is just talk, no yelling and fighting, just talk!! I hope i was some help!
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