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help! is my boyfriend controlive??
heres the story.im a very happy girl i love to dance but my boyfriend hates when i dance with guys he says he feels disrespected even when im dancing a foot apart..he always accuses me of cheating and tells me im gonna leave him one day. he tells me how id rather hangout with my friends than him and i should just admit it.did i mention he has two tattoos of my name and is planning to do a third i can see he gets a bit jealous when i hug my guy friends and he always tells me im his(but i guess thats normal right?)he always asks who im going with and where..and when i dont answer he gets extremely upset..i already stopped talking to two of my guy friends because of him:(.i know im a very bossy girl . i always feel the need to have at least 85% controll of the relationship and i would hate if he danced with another girl as well(so is that good or bad) do u guys think hes controlive??...PLEASE HELP!
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You are both being nasty.
A guy getting a bit upset when you dance with other guys is well within normal. Constantly being accused of cheating, having multiple tattoos of someone's name, and giving up friends for his comfort... That is not normal. It's not a normal or healthy way for your relationship to work.
You are both fighting for control over the other person instead of being in a relationship. Honestly, when a guy starts demanding to know where you are and who you are with, that is when you just break it off. That isn't just controlling, that is threatening.
Find someone else, and while you are at it, improve your own behaviour. Being bossy is one thing, but telling yourself you want '85% control' is fucking nuts and completely unrealistic. Nobody gets that. The only person you ever get control of is you. Learn to deal with it and respect your partners self-control, instead of bossing them around, and you'll be better girlfriend. You'll also be more attractive to guys who aren't bullies themselves.
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i think you need to sit down and talk to him tell him that dancing is a big part of your life and you don't wanna give that up. and i have had guy say the something to me about the your gonna leave me or cheat on me and i normally just tell them look am with you because i wanna be not because i have to be and you telling me all the time how am don't want to be with you is making me mad and making me think twice about being with you so stop it and normally they get it through there head that you wanna be with them and stop saying it now about everything else am not sure that he is controlling he sounds more like he is head over heels for you i don't no mine guys that get 3 tattoos with a girls name but the answer is simple none the less you need to think about everything he is doing that bother's you wright down and then talk to him relationships are about give and take so when you are talking to him about the problems try to come to something you both can live with. example you love to dance but he dose not like it when you dance with other guys then ask him to dance with you more or see if he is OK with you dancing with other guy if he is there. i hope that helps and wish you the best of luck cc
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