why do guys make such a big deal about popping cherries? I mean, it sounds almost like they are trying to get a collection of them or something? I certainly don't want to give mine to somebody who is just trying to collect trophies, so how do I tell if a guy wants me or my cherry?
You are absolutely right in your thinking and your thoughts concerning boys your personal virginity.
I found the following website while answering a very similar question for other young ladies. I believe you should review this website before making any decision about having sex, starting with “Am I ready?” and “Dealing with Pressure”.
Amy boy who is pressuring you for sex, whether it is to take your virginity or for sex in general is doing so not out love but out of lust. Do not mistake one for the other, stick with your principles. Any boy who walks away because you won’t have sex with him is not someone you want in your life anyway for eventually he will leave you when things get to serious.
OhMyLucyDarling answered Wednesday April 14 2010, 10:26 pm: If the guy is truly into you then that is how you can tell, By meanings, Respects you, Listens to you, Trust you etc. Not someone who seems to want to get in your pants and keeps talking about it every minute of the day.
Honestly, I do not know what the big deal about cherry popping is either but I can say these days it seems like it's a race to loose the virginity.
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