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Am I a slut? is this slutty?
I need to know what it means when you are a slut? How many guys do you have to sleep with to be a slut? Is there like a test or something you can take that tells you if you are being slutty or whatever?
I slept with tree guys in the same night. I feel like the worst person! I didn't tell any of them that I had slept with any of the others, I just wanted to see who was best. Now I feel really stupid. You can tell me the truth when you answer my question, I won't be mad or rate you low.
Is there anything that I can do to make this better? Should I tell the guys? What if one of them has a disease and I gave it to all of them?
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I'll say it, that was slutty.
Even people who have casual sex usually frown on two or three new sex partners in a night. Outside of people who are into a swinging lifestyle (and thus don't try to hide it, are adult about it, and usually aren't teenagers with no adult ideas about sex and relationships) no one really does what you did unless they have an issue with personal standards.
Honestly, keep it to yourself, close your legs, and in six months get an STD test. It could take that long before you get a positive. Get a boyfriend and have sex for more reasons than to get yourself or others off, there's more to sexuality than orgasms and fun.
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DONT TELL ANYONE.
You will be called a slut. Wether you are or not.. people can be cruel.
It will ruin your life. I promise.
Take this as a lesson learned.. Don't sleep around.. for your safety and others'.
People in this world are SICK.
Some even sleep with wemon and men knowingly passing STD's around, even AIDS.
Be careful honey!!
I don't think you are a "slut"
But i do think that what you did that night was slutty. However.. your young and you can come back from this.. Keep ya head up.
Be careful (=
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i agree with the columnist bellow. but about having an STD... you yourself go get checked out first. no need to worry those men. and if something DOES come up. you need to tell them. and each one of them needs to get checked out as well. im really sorry you are going through this hun. really i am :(
hope i helped some!
xoxo Cinderella17
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I'm not going to say you are slutty, but I will say you might want to be careful who you sleep with and how many guys you decide to have sex with also.
It is not about who is best, It's about safety, Self respect, Love, and Trust. Sex is so much more than what people presume it to be. Many people especially young teens and adults think sex is just a competition a wham bam type of thing. This is how many end up pregnant or STD. Some people don't even think about the consequences. However, Do I think you are slutty? No. I think you really should take what you did as a lesson though and be more careful in the future.
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