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alright so me and this guy from uni were planning on going to the movies together.he had told em that he likes me and i had told him i like him too.we had been flirting and txting a lot.oventually i asked him if he wanted to hangout as friends and he said yes and suggested to go to the movies.
anyway we planned this a week before the date and spoke about it all the time and how we were both nervous and excited and couldnt wait etc etc.
so the night before the day we were txting and like i remninded him about meeting up and not to be late etc etc.
so thew next day came and i was waitng for him at the movies.i waited and waited and oventually i txtd him.after 10minutes he txtd back and told me hell have to txt me later because hes at the physio for his leg.didnt say anything about us meeting up.i was really angry at the time.hours later he txtd me and apologised and said he was just thinking of himself etc.he promised to make it up to me and wnated another chance.
now i wnated to ask.should i give him another chance or do u think he probably didnt even like me to start off with?
if you think i should move on how should i stop myself from forgiving him and falling back into his trap again?
thanks in advance
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Hmm, it's obviously not the best start!
It really is down to you, though.
Personally, I'd be pretty annoyed just like you, but I'd probably give it one more chance, especially if I liked him.
Hey, he said he'd make it up to you, so see if he sticks to his word this time.. if he continues playing about, then at least you know you tried.
You don't know the full circumstances as to why he "stood you up".. but at least you did get an apology etc.
I think the problem with girls these days is they are too stubborn.. it shouldn't always be left to the guy to do the running about, it should be equal. I'm in no way aiming this at you hun. it's for future reference and I'm trying to make you realize you shouldn't feel silly for initiating a meet up with a guy, even if it doesn't go too great the first time.
You never know what could come of things unless you try. I'd forget about the day you were supposed to meet and try once more.
Good luck with whatever you do. I'd quite like to know what you decide and what comes of it, so let me know in feedback.
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its up to you if you really feel like you should get back wit him you should but personaly i would just stay friends
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