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Conflicted
Hey 16/f
So I went to this party on saturday night. It was my ex boyfriend's birthday and the party was at his house. My crush was also at this party. After a few hours everyone was pretty drunk except me and my crush. Everyone kept telling us to hook up and someone even gave us a condom. We thought they were being idiots so we just stayed in the bedroom and talked for a while. Anyways, my friend and I ended up staying over and my crush went home. So at like 3 everyone was deciding where they were going to sleep. I ended up next to my ex on his bed. We shared a pillow and were lying pretty close. He put his hands on my legs and side and we just talked. I fell asleep and whenever I woke up his hands were still there. I wasn't stopping him and I kinda liked it but I don't like him. So now I feel like I've betrayed my crush by "sleeping" with my ex and being so close with him when I wasn't close with him at all. Why do I feel this way? and how do I make it stop?
Thanks
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Hi,
I think you feel this way because you like this guy a lot. I don't think you sleeping with your ex boyfriend was doing anything wrong. And you didn't betray your crush because you're not even dating. Don't worry about it.
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You feel like that because you know what you did was wrong. But you didn't "betray" your crush, you betrayed yourself. But its a good thing you feel like this. It means you're a good person! You have guilt because you know it wasn't appropriate to "sleep" with your ex when you don't have feelings for him. So give yourself a break, blow it off as one of those nights and enjoy your new crush.
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