iv ben dating this guy i like but i dont want to be his girlfriend. he understands because i just went through being cheated on in my two year relationship so im not ready for commitment. but i feel myself commited to him, we are only friends, but today i had two friends over and one left then me an a guy i like just cuddled but i wouldnt kiss him, does it matter if i would have? its not considered cheating but is that wrong to do. i didnt i just wanted to. also, should i consider to stay dating the one guy or should i open my options, he lives an hour away and is younger and his parents like run him they wont even let me drive him but he is amazingly sweet.
JustJessOx answered Sunday April 11 2010, 9:20 am: Hey there..
okay this situation sounds similar to me and my bf.
at the moment I don't feel like making the effort and I want to keep my options open also and im feeling fed up although hes very sweet too.
Howeverr..just because someone is sweet it doesnt nesecarly make you happy.
ask yourself are you happy with this guy?do you want to make the effort and try see him despite the problems?
or would you rather be free to flirt with other guys..?
Its your decision but don't lead the other guy on figure out what you want and go from there :)
Hope this helped and good luck
much <3
Jess
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Alicee95 answered Sunday April 11 2010, 8:19 am: It doesn't sound like you really want to be with the guy your dating, and it's pretty mean to lead him on.
If he understands you don't want to be commited to him then that's fine. But he obviously wants to be with you :(
It sounds to me like you just want to keep your options open, flirt with some guys, kiss and stuff.
Maybe you should stop dating this guy for a while and just see a few people. ?
Hope this helps
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