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how do you tell ?
how do you tell if a guy actually likes you or if hes just using you for action?
thanks
kaitlyn
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The difference is that a guy who likes you will not be afraid to let anyone know abbout it, will date you (if permitted by his and your parents), will take you on dates (if old enough and able), will treat your with respect and be very kind and caring towards you. However, a guy who is using you will sometimes try to hide that he's with you or say "It's best to just not tell anyone, it'll be our little secret...", will or won't date but will only take you on dates that you can get "action" on or won't take you on dates because he only wants the "action." Sometimes he won't treat you very nicely, only if he gets what he wants.
If you find a guy is using you, kick him to the curb. You don't deserve that friend.
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Hi Kaitlyn :)
Well the best way to tell is if your going out or not first. If he doesn't want to make a commitment to you guys actually dating but still wants to do things with you then this is a big sign hes using you. You need a boy who wants an actual relationship and doesn't rush you into doing things your not comfortable with
Questions to ask yourself:
*if you are going out...do you just hang out and be together or does he always want to do sexual stuff?
*do you feel like he actually cares for you?
My friend went through this with a boy and she ended up being used
At the end of the day its about what you want to do with him. Unfortunately some boys do like to use girls.... something about looking cool to their friends :/
Hopefully he's not using you but you need to find out really just to make sure x
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Stop hooking up. If he still wants to be with you, he's into you. If not, he's just using you.
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