Me and my best friend have been friends for 4 years, but this year weve got into fights and were always, well shes always angry at me and everytime she is I come crawling back and I apologize even though I have no idea what I did the other night she said that I make her feel like an idiot when I do stupids things but I told her that shes not an idiot and shouldnt feel that way cause im just joking around and now she's not talking to me and honestly im tired of all this and i was gonna ask her if she thinks our friendship is worth saving because at this point im not gonna kill myself over this anymore but I'm not crawling back this time shes gonna be the one crawling back but I'm scared cause I really dont want to lose her please help me cause im really cofused....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? yaathaarthya answered Friday April 9 2010, 7:46 pm: Hi, best friends may fight but never go apart or forget each other. Well from what I understand you say something about her or do something in front of the other guys and that makes her look like an idiot. Do you make fun of her? You may just be joking and may not intend to hurt her but you did. Just stop doing that in front of others. You got to respect her feelings right? You said it's always you who goes back to her so she takes for granted that you are going to do the same thing, you should have told her it won't happen all the time and 1 day you wouldn't show up. Go talk to her, understand exactly what the problem is, respect each others feelings, just don't do anything she doesn't like. And tell her that it should not always be you who goes back and talks, sometimes it should be her too no matter who's mistake it is. At the end you guys still want to stay best friends right? Who wants to lose them. It's easy to find friends but too difficult to find best friends. Good luck! [ yaathaarthya's advice column | Ask yaathaarthya A Question ]
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