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love or not
can you be in love with someone your not with. like can you be in love with your best friend with out ever being with him and with out ever expressing your feelings and i mean really loving someone not just saying you love them without feeling it. there is this guy he is like my really good friend but he would never date anyone till its the rite one. he wont even really discuss it. i will not talk to him about it because it would be to akward because im shy. when i with him its like whatever and i dont even care that much about him but when he is gone i have so much feelings for him. we are totally different. he is the type to not date unless thats the girl he is going to marry and i am not like that. there is a couple of girls that like him but he turns them down because he know he wont and cant date them. but i want to know what do i do about situation because i tried to get over him but when he is gone and i dont see him for along time it comes back
(and we are both 17 if you are wondering)
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I'm not sure if it's love. But you definitely have feelings for him. I'm 17 too, so i'm not technically sure how to define love. But i have a general idea.
I know it's awkward for you to mention it to him. but you can try getting the message through without words. Like ask him to hang out, but make it more formal. Like going out to a nice dinner. Don't mention the word "date" or "go out". just say "hang out". try being a little flirty. send a few messages to let him know you're somewhat interested. LIke staring at him for a little while (don't like creep on him for 10 seconds. but like a flirty glance for 3-5 seconds) laugh a lot and smile a lot. just kinda get the message across that you like him a lot. Maybe you can even tell him you miss him. Perhaps send him a text message (day or night) and simply just say "i miss you". That way he will know that you have been thinking about him.
as from there… its just fate ya know? let things flow. don't force something to go the way you want it to go. just let fate takes its path. if he's not interested, don't force him to like you. then it wasn't meant to be. good luck and just be yourself :)
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