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Does He Like Her?
I will keep this as short as possible. Basically my boyfriend and I are going through a bit of a "rough patch" We've liked eachother since almost a year ago, but we never got together. He was never really sure what/who he wanted. He always told me
he really liked me, but when I first met him he had split up with his girlfriend 2 days before. He wasn't too bothered about it, I remember asking him why and he said she was a "b*tch" We carried on as friends and he mentioned her on a couple of occasions, usually saying bad things about her e.g. pranking calling him all of the time. Around September time me and him fell out, because I really liked him and although he said he liked me, he weren't ready for a relationship. Whilst we had fallen out I know he was in contact with his ex girlfriend again, but they never got together. 3 Months ago he apologised to me, he said he really missed me, liked me etc. His ex girlfriend went crazy when she found out we were together, he told me that she had sent him a text message saying he was a jerk and all this. I asked why she was so bothered if they'd split up almost a year ago, he said they'd started talking again but she was a "b*tch" I know she always wanted him back, so I was really happy when he was ready for a relationship...and with me. I feel like she's caused problems between us though. I don't know for sure though. One of his good friends Carmen is friends with her, so whenever my boyfriend goes to these parties his ex is always there. I was glad that he told me that she was there instead of hiding it from me, he said that she asked why he used to be in moods with her etc. But he told me that he refused to speak to her until his friends told him to stop being mean. He has been to a few parties where she has been, and I know he wouldn't of cheated on me with her, but it makes me wonder what she has said to him. The past week my boyfriend has been confused about his "feelings" I asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he said he didn't know how he felt. Am I being paranoid or will his ex have something to do with this?
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You know what I think? I think that when you jump into a relationship with someone who recently ended a relationship with someone you can possibly be setting yourself up for faliure. Because you don't know weather that person still has feelings with his ex or not. And from the sound of it, it seems like he's playing you and her like some sort of yo yo. And yes that is pretty fishy why would someone who's been broken up for a year with someone get mad because their ex is dating? Sounds Very fishy to me. And now he tells you he's confused. Personally I think you should leave this guy alone! Go on with your life and in the future don't deal with a guy with so much baggage. You're a beautiful person... And some other man will love you like you are suppose to be love... The best of luck to you and always
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Ultimately you should probably leave this guy. It doesn't sound like he knows what or who he wants. The whole thing sounds pretty fishy to me. At the very least you should probably tell him you're taking a break from the relationship until he gets his head straight and figures out what he wants. If he doesn't know that he wants to be with you one hundred percent than he's not worth your time or effort.
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Well,the truth is,it's all rather unclear.Anyhow,I suggest you sit and talk to him and see if you can sort it out.Ask him to be honest.She may have something to do with it,and I can't tell you if he likes her,but what I can tell you is that you should get to the bottom of it as soon as possible.Don't torture yourself.The sooner you know the truth,the better.
I wish you luck.
solariagirl94
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