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Boy in my lunch.
There's a guy in my lunch period and everyday I walk by him he looks at me and lately I've worked up the courage to look him in the eyes as I walk by as well. It's really quite sweet, we hold each other's gaze until I'm behind him at my table. I'm the one to usually break the gaze. I'm really diggin him, he's cute and he skateboards, he used to smoke weed but he quit for lacrosse and because he didn't like who he was when he was high. Anyways, I feel like his looking at me is his first step to try and like.. tell me something. I want to talk to him but I don't want to just sit at his lunch table and he like "HEY!" haha so what do I do? Do you think I should even try to talk to him? What do you think him looking at me all the time means and him not breaking the gaze first.. ever? Thanks!
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okay you say you dont want to make the first move, this is okay. drop other hints of your interest by adding a smile or wink as you walk past. if he continues to glaze at you gradually start say a soft "hey" as you walk past then continue to your table.
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Smiling and eye contact should drop him the hints that you like him. If you want to make the next move then why not ask him to the dance? To save awkwardness you could simply say "Hey, I'm going to the dance that is coming up and I was just wondering if you'd be interested in being my date" That is simply put, It's not too forward and it's not awkward. If you don't feel comfortable with that then you could just walk up to him and start off with small talk. Compliment him, Say Hello, If you know he likes Lacrosse then go to one of his meets and afterward compliment him. If you go to his meet you could even wait until he approaches you first, If you keep smiling and making eye contact sooner or later he'll get the hint.
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