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I am in the early stage of pregnancy, One of the things I love to do during my free time is play pool at a bar. I do not drink and neither does my boyfriend I was wondering if it would be odd if I went to a bar to play pool and enjoy karaoke while I'm pregnant? I don't want to give off the wrong impression that I am irresponsible, However I do know that if I did go to a bar while I was starting to show that no matter what I would probably get assumptions from other people that I was immature. I do not plan to attend a bar while I am starting to show, I wanted to go until it was too noticeable that I am carrying. I'm not sure if it would be a smart idea, It is only twice a week that I normally go. Again, I do not drink and if I do all I get is water.
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If you are comfortable and safe in what you are doing, go right ahead.
Some people are going to judge a pregnant lady in a bar. That's just life and you seem to already know it. People will make assumptions and some judgements. Mostly they'll keep them to themselves, but someone might say something you find offensive... It can't really be helped. The best and most gracious thing you can do is laugh it off.
Frankly, making some friends with the regulars and with the bar tenders and laughing about it now ("Yeah, pregnant ladies are cheep dates!") might help make a more welcoming enviroment at your favourite bar as you get bigger...
You might as well enjoy it well you can. Not like you'll have a lot of free evenings for a long while afterwards...
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