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really dig this guy help me
I like this guy and he is 18 and im 14....he is a counselor at i camp i go to frequently so how can i get him to notice me? help please??
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I've got to totally agree with the prior columnists advise. He will get into a whole lot of trouble not to mention fired from his job. You are young and have many many crushes to go through so dont mean to be harsh but get used to it.
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This is illegal. Do you want to see him arrested?
Don't even bother because it's not worth the risk, and if he has ANY brain he will not "notice you" because you're just a kid and it's a felony.
If you're about to reply with a "But I really, really like him!", just think for a minute. This isn't about you, especially not with this age difference. Think of the consequences he may have to face.
Seriously, just find someone in your age group. I know it's cliche to say this, but there's PLENTY of other fish in the sea. Don't go after people over 18 until you're at the age of consent (which between age 16-18, depending on the state you're in).
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I doubt any of us can even endorse you going after him because he's 18, he's a legal adult and you're a minor. You're not even at the age of consent, which would be 16. There's probably no way he'd go after you, even if you did get his attention. It's illegal, and I'm sure prison isn't in his plan for the future. I think you should try to get over this crush and find someone you're own age, you're way too young. Especially if you're a camper and he's a counselor, it's probably against the rules to get involved.
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