I always wished there were someone I could turn to without judging me or having a bias opinion when it came down to my own problems or issues. I can honestly say that I am one of those unique individuals that no matter the circumstance, believe there is a reason behind everything and all though it may not be an agreeable reason, that person shouldn't be judged. Sometimes when someone truly wants advise, they're looking for a reason to change something about themselves and I believe that's an opportunity for me to make a difference in someone's life.
Gender: Female
Location: Austin, Texas
Age: 32
AIM: dodlozelik78
Member Since: March 26, 2010
Answers: 4
Last Update: March 27, 2010
Visitors: 773
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I like this guy and he is 18 and im 14....he is a counselor at i camp i go to frequently so how can i get him to notice me? help please?? (link)
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I've got to totally agree with the prior columnists advise. He will get into a whole lot of trouble not to mention fired from his job. You are young and have many many crushes to go through so dont mean to be harsh but get used to it.
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I'm applying to be a bagger at a grocery store. I was wondering if most places require an interview for that kind of job? (I've heard that jobs like that don't even bother with it and just hire on the spot, but wasn't sure.) And if so, what kind of questions do you think they'll ask? Thanx. (link)
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well, where I from the grocery store's (based on experience) do require an interview to determine if you may qualify for a more advanced position even though you applied for a lesser one.
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My boyfriend has recently started talking to an ex girlfriend of his. I could see them talking for long periods of time when they first got in touch with eachother, but she calls him all day and texts him all hours of the morning. She's even sent pictures of herself to him. When I ask him questions about her he gets mad and tells me to get out of his face. Recently he started locking his phone. He's told me they are just friends, but he's lied about a conversation they had for over 2 hours while he was golfing. I know that this girl has feelings for him, but could he be having feelings for her too. I don't know what they talk about when I'm not there. Now when she calls he doesn't answer her calls if I'm there. Should I be concerned? We've been together for 4 years. (link)
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ok seriously, girl be very concerned. all the signs are there. I know how hard it is to actually face whats really going on but if he was totally committed to you then asking him to cut it off with her wouldn't be a big deal. Atleast he would understand how you feel about it and do something to prove to you he wasn't lying. Like involving you in their conversations or whatever. Now if he's locking his cell all of a sudden then there's clearly something he's hiding. If there was nothing going on he wouldn't be secretive. It took me 4 years to actually accept the fact my ex was doing me wrong. He was always sneaking around, locking his phone and when I would ask about it, try to turn things to where I would think it was my mind. Well, it took almost 5 years, one child and my best friend to see the truth. What I learned from that experience was once the trust is gone, there's really no way to get it back after a deception like that. Its better to have been 4 years than 10 years of the same situations.
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Ok, so I let my boyfriend finger me for the first time the other day, and it wasn't great at all.
Whenever I do it myself, it's awesome, but I just can't...you know....'get there' when he does it.
Any ideas on how I can help him, or whatever, without insulting him?
Thanks (link)
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well I wouldn't tell him he sucks at it but just kinda mention during conversation about the "come here" motion. Tell him you read it in a magazine or whatever but its really simple to do. Simply use the index finger and the middle finger, palms up and signal "come here" motion. Just simply tell him you want to try it, see what all the hype's about.
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