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making out..
Ok, so I let my boyfriend finger me for the first time the other day, and it wasn't great at all.
Whenever I do it myself, it's awesome, but I just can't...you know....'get there' when he does it.
Any ideas on how I can help him, or whatever, without insulting him?
Thanks
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It's a good thing you can get off yourself, because now you can teach your boyfriend! (without him knowing, of course) When he's fingering you, you can guide his finger to the right spot and once he's doing the right thing, be sure to make some noises of appreciation so he knows he's doing the right thing. You could also masturbate in front of him (he would think you're the sexiest girl ever) and by watching, he could see what you like.
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well I wouldn't tell him he sucks at it but just kinda mention during conversation about the "come here" motion. Tell him you read it in a magazine or whatever but its really simple to do. Simply use the index finger and the middle finger, palms up and signal "come here" motion. Just simply tell him you want to try it, see what all the hype's about.
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No way to tell him, without hurting his feelings.. unless he's not a sensitive guy.
But you just need to show him and tell him what you like..
If anything.. he'll think it's sexy to watch you do it..
don't tell him he sucks LOL..
Just say oh baby.. lemme show you something that drives me crazy.. i bet you'd be GREAT at it.. so on and so on..
Everything will be fine.. much better than to have him suck.. you'll just grow to be turned off by him.. if you don't change it now (:
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