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What do I do?
There is this kid in my gym class who I'm really diggin, like he's really cute and sweet but every time I'm near a guy I like I get nervous and can't talk to them. However, my friend is such a doll and talks to him for me so today she told him me and my other friend are going to be on facebook and that he should go on so I can talk to him and he said "I will most definitely be on" then she said good, she's afraid to talk to you in person because you'll think she's weird and he said "no, I wouldn't at all, I think it's cute that she's shy, we're alike in that way." and my friend said yeaa but I'll get her to talk to you soon and he said "Good, I really want her to talk to me." sooo, I gather that he's kinda diggin me too, right? Now, what do I do from here? I know the obvious is to talk to him but what do I say? I feel like it'll be weird because he knows I like him. I also see him one period a day which is gym, at the beginning of the period, he's hackysacking with friends then they have to go in the locker room and change, then he goes to his squad and I go to mine.. so I don't see him, that's also a factor. Please help. I'm in such a rut. Thanks.
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Well you could first start talking to him on facebook or online,get to know him there, ask him questions about him, but not in like an interrogating way, just hold a normal friendly conversation, and see what you have in common. Its basically a better way to first meet someone and set your real first impression, because sometimes when you see someone face to face and your shy, so things are awkward, so you set the wrong impression and stuff.
And yes he sounds like he's interested too, i'm not sure if he likes you with the meaning of like, cause he doesn't know you yet, and actually you don't know him either yet, so don't skip to conclusions, sometimes when you actually get closer to someone its different than when knowing him from a distance.
And your friend didn't actually tell him that you like him, she just indirectly said it, so that could mean that you just want to be friends but your shy, afraid to take the first move.
And hey, eventually you will have to take the first move, and it will be hard, and your gonna blush and your face is just gonna be all red, and your gonna say stupid things lol but it happens, and i bet he'll do the same lol, but eventually you'll have to do it, and it will just be once, and you never know, sometimes it goes well hehe that's why its better if you talk online first, so that at least you'd know each other in someway.
And about not seeing him in school, maybe when you talk online, you'd set a date or like a time where you could hang out, maybe after school or at a free time you both have, so you'd be able to hang out.
Hope i helped, please be free to contact me if you need anything else. Best of luck :D
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If you like a guy you start off with small talk, Sometimes when a girl has their friends talk for them it gives off the wrong impression depending on the guy he could think it's YOUR friend that really has the crush on him. Not to mention, but lets not leave an opening for your friend right? I mean guys are weird...YOU talk to him.
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