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Boys confuse me
16/f
Is it weird that my boyfriend will do anything to help this one girl, including telling everyone he is going out with her? when he has been with me for just over 5 months, i'm probably over reacting a bit I don't get why. maybe i'm not good enough any more.
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Honey you are not overreacting. I mean, I think it's great your boyfriend wants to "help" this girl, helping is a good thing. But saying he is dating her? That's way beyond the line of helping. I would tell him he needs to stop "helping" her in the way of acting like he's dating her, and be with you as you are his girlfriend. Tell him he needs to be with you and you only, even if he really is only acting like he's her boyfriend -- it's still feels just as real to you.
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Is it weird? No. Is it wrong? Yes.
This is not a flaw or weakness in you.
This is about a teenage boy being insensitive, which is not terribly surprising. It could mean that he has moved on emotionally, or it just could be hot empty air meant to impress his friends.
You can choose to ignore it or hit it head on by telling him that if he wants to continue to stay with you, he needs to stop saying he is going out with someone else. You did not sign on to be part of a harem, smile.
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