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hmm so my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time. He didnt like the experience because he was afraid he had gotten me pregnant. now he says he doesnt want to do it again. BUT I DO. what should i do? oh , and i tried masturbating. NOT THE SAME
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if he doesnt want to do sex with you , you should cut him some space,because maybe he is not ready to have sex with you, if he gets you pregnant hes going to be who to blame here, hes not ready to take respeonsality yet, dont have sex with him, he is not ready for that , just be patient
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If he doesn't feel comfortable having sex because of the consequences then I applaud him! There aren't that many guys these days that care so much about sex and the appropriate time to do it!
The experience can only be comfortable and enjoyable if both people are ready!
I am sure when he feels like he is ready again to do it then he will! Having sex with you doesn't seem to be the issue but the thought of having a baby is!
I guess in the mean time you could go on the pill and when you do have sex always use condoms to calm the situation! Don't force him though!
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When a girl says NO, it means NO.
When a guy says NO, it also means NO.
Don't pressure your boyfriend or demand. Respect his choice the way you'd want a guy to respect yours, or your female friends. They deserve exactly the same kind of respect for thier contraception concerns and sexual choices as any girl does.
If you can't cope with a relationship without sex, dump him, and find someone who will sleep with you.
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