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Lazy and Boring
18/f
I've been pretty lazy my whole life, at least that's what I think. Since I was 13 all I did was use the computer, talk on the phone and maybe ice skate or play tennis depending on the season. I didn't really hang out much, maybe I didn't really feel the desire to. Sometimes I was so lazy that I would rather stay in bed and go back to sleep and starve myself rather than going out to look for food, and if I had to use the bathroom then I'd wait until I really had to go. Now that I'm 18 I feel somewhat unmotivated or even lazier. My eating habits have improved though, but when I go out to the mall or anything I feel extremely tired and I sometimes would just want a place to lay down or sit and take a break. Last summer I did this several times with my cousin for probably every 10 to 15 minutes..I'm not fat, and I'm pretty athletic since I've played tennis for 3 years, was mvp, and was athlete of the week. When I'm out with my girlfriend who I've been dating for 7 months I feel really tired and just want to go home, like I was want to shop and leave, or take a couple of laps then leave. We don't have much money to spend anyway. Everything I see is like usual, and its the same every time I go there, just that there might be several sales or whatever. Lately all we do is go back and forth to each other's house, eat, spend the night, watch t.v., have sex, and that's our weekend. And we've been doing that for several months which really sucks because it's getting boring. And today when we went to get supplies for bird house I ended up buying my little cousin a giant coloring book and decided to buy the bird house later, then she offered to go buy paint and I said no lets go home because something kicked it and i felt really tired and just wanted to go home; but that was also after she called me boring because I said no and i felt, I don't know , sad? because i was thinking she'd leave me for someone more fun which might be likely. There are a lot of things I want to do, but it seems like the closer I get to it the more I realize how bored I am of the idea. What the he** is wrong with me?
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Depression certainly could be the problem, but sometimes depression (oftentimes) is caused by vitamin deficiencies. B 12 is the vitamin that doctors give by injection to the elderly when they lack energy and/or are depressed. You may have a deficiency.
If I were you, before I took any other route, I would take a very good powdered supplement, not just B12. There is a product I use called All-One by Nutritech. I've had my days when I didn't think I could crawl out of bed because I was so physically tired. After taking this supplement I was a new person. No exaggeration. I have since recommended it to many people I know and everyone swears by it. The worse you deficiency, the quicker you will see the difference.
Your tiredness overrides your interest in life. Please try the vitamin supplement!
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I'm wondering if you are depressed. Sometimes the symptoms of depression look like laziness. It could be something medical, but my money is on depression. You just aren't motivated to interact with the "real" world. When you get tired its your mind telling you to protect yourself by retreating and further isolating yourself. You can start digging your way out of this by seeing doctor. Any family practitioner will do. They'll give you all the physical tests to make sure its not a medical issue and refer you to a therapist or counselor if necessary. Now, here's the hard part... you'll have to actually make an appointment. The good news is, you sound like you are at the end of your rope. That means you really want help. You are the only one who can decide for yourself that enough is enough. If you take this one small step, I can promise you from personal experience that the next step will be easier. You can be free from this. YOu'll be amazed how much you can change and how quickly, but you need to want it. See what you can do. You won't regret it.
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