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I went to a new youth group tonight with my friend from school and I realized her brother is amazingly gorgeous! I feel like sometimes, he was flirting with me, he would go to the door to watch for a friend coming and he would brush my shoulder or when I looked at him, he'd fix his hair and smile. I want to get to know him, I don't want to start anything romantic before I get to know him. But first, I want him to notice me. I want to be something different to him, make him approach me first. So, what do I do to look cute to him that he would come to me and start talking instead of me going to him? Thanks!
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male perspective: he smiled at you, you already look cute to him.
Guys are not subtle. The time and energy spent "looking cute" for one guy often gets noticed by the wrong guy.
Just go talk to him. Odds are he is probably shy, given that he fixes his hair when you look at him.
The extent of planning i suggest is asking his sister about his interests and strike up a conversation about one of those. that will set both of you at ease and get things started on neutral ground.
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This is the best piece of advice when it comes to attracting men: if he's interested, he will come up to you. He will engage you in conversation. There's probably not a single thing you could do (at least to provoke interest in him for the right reasons) besides being yourself, and being confident with who you are.
With that said, if he was really flirting with you, he'll approach you in his own time. If you want him to notice you however, the best thing for you to do would be to talk to him.
Meanwhile don't allow yourself to analyze every step he makes.
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