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am i completely shallow ?
okay ...
well there was this quy *jason* that i thouqht was really cute & i started talkinq to him (not leadinq him on thouqh, just as friends), but i liked him, he just didnt know. then i saw a picture w/ out his shirt on & i qot totally turned off cause he had a biq belly button & biq nipples. is that really messed up ? or am i just weird ? lol.
be honest.
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I think the answer was pretty good, though I dont see where you said youre 13.
I'm going to go off of personal experience and say that you cant be with a guy that totally disgusts you. There has to be some kind of physical attraction. We all have different tastes, so what's "perfect" or "acceptable" to one person is completely different than what the next person wants. Some people may find him acceptable. If you can deal with it and want to, go ahead. It sounds like you cant/dont. You realize that now, so you can get out before you've invested too much.
You can't marry/be with everyone; there's always going to be a deal breaker. It's likely that there's someone equal to or better than he is anyways. Think about his friends. Or some other classmates or something. You dont want all of them. Why? Because they're not cute enough or interesting enough. And that's ok. Youre not going to like everyone and not everyone is going to like you. But someone will like them and someone will like you. That's the great thing about this life/world.
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You're just basing things on his looks, probably because you just don't know him well enough just yet.
When you find that someone who you REALLY like, you won't just base it on looks and you will like/love them for who they are and what they have - noone has a perfect body. Pft, what the hell is perfect anyway? Who knows, if you carry on talking to him, you might end up falling for him, or you may realize you just thought he was cute and nothing more.
Do you like his personality? Is the belly button and nipple thing the only turn off? Try to look past it and see what happens.
It's not exactly weird, perhaps a little shallow. Apparently you're only 13 though, as you get older, you learn to look past imperfections and treat them as good points. :)
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