I'm a virgin and on friday my boyfriend and I almost had sex. He didn't go all the way in. I'm getting nervous cuz my stomach feels really bloated. I have some side pains that are kinda like period ones but not as strong...i'm really scared...what do i do?
The only way to be positive is to take a test, The recommended time is 6-10 days after sex. You didn't mention whether you used protection or not but if you didn't you might want to consider it for next time. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
cloudy_conscience answered Sunday March 7 2010, 5:59 pm: First of all, don't get nervous & stress out about it because if you stress out about it then you can actually mess up your period making you think that you are pregnant when in reality you are not. Stay calm, if you miss your period, buy an at home pregnancy test & take it, then go from there. Stress is one of the leading causes of missed or late periods, your stomach pains are probably in your head because there are usually no pregnacy symptoms until you are a couple weeks along.
Secondly, you really need to use some protection, whether its condoms or birth control or whatever you choose, sex is very serious & you need to be smart about it. If you are thinking of becoming sexually active then you need to either speak to your parents about it or go to your local clinic & speak to them about your options for birth control.
Hope I Helped. [ cloudy_conscience's advice column | Ask cloudy_conscience A Question ]
bloomxo answered Sunday March 7 2010, 4:46 pm: you could just be really nervous cuz you really like him and its you first time.
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