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Used me.
Hiya, 15, female. I have an older brother, 18 years old. There is a girl in my church who was one of my best friends, we hung out everyday and did all of this fun stuff together, I was her number one on myspace, there was an album of just me and her on her facebook, until she found out she liked my brother. Less and less we would hang out. She would come to my house to be with me but her and my brother would just ditch me and go up into his room. Even when we went to her house to hang out she would text him constantly and act like I wasn't even there. I got so mad I just stopped talking to her. Then, her mom and dad found out she was dating a "bad boy" when her mom wants her with the pastor's son. So, her mother made them break up. Now, since they have broken up I thought they stopped talking until one day my brother didn't log out of his facebook and I saw that they were talking to each other about how great their sex was!! I was shocked that from then on I realized I HATED her and that she only used me for my brother. She stopped talking to me and she said she stopped talking to my brother when in reality she didn't. In church she tries to talk to me like we're still "best friends" but I can't even look at her without wanting to strangle her. Now, I kinda got over it until my mom told me that she was messaged by this girl on facebook last night, she said she got a new phone, she doesn't know how I feel about her but I've been on her mind a lot, then she gave my mom her new cell number and told her to give it to me. I don't want this girl in my life anymore! What do I do?
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I think you should confront her & say that you'd like it if she gave you some space be truthful & honest with her and hopefully she'll get the hint
that you don't want to be bothered by her or say if she was a real friend she wouldn't of used you for your brother friends don't do that to one another do
whatever you need to get your point across & for her to leave you alone you have every right to dislike her seeing as she used you & if she asks about the cell number lie & say your mother didn't
give it to you karma what comes around goes around(:
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The thing i would suggest is to tell her how you feel in an email or letter. It seems to me that she just happened to fall in love with your brother while being your friend. If you think you should be her friend, I would suggest being her friend only through your brother.
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