Member Since: February 13, 2010
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Last Update: March 4, 2010
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Hi, 15, female. I hear of all these stories about best friends becoming couples and living happily ever after. To my surprise, everybody that I know thinks that is what's going to happen with me and my best friend of 7 years. We don't hang out outside of school but this boy is one of a kind, he is always there for me and I wouldn't be who I am without him in my life. So I'm going to bullet a few things for you to read and you can tell me if you think he likes me.
-> everyone says he smiles the whole time we talk
-> he wears a bracelet that I have him everyday when the girl he used to like made him one and he never wore it even when he liked her
-> my friend says he looks at me sometimes in class more than any other guy does
-> before when he liked his most recent class he told me who it was but I asked him a few days ago and he said "hmm, can't tell ya"
-> he helps me so much in the classes we have together, if I get lost or need help, I'll text him and he helps me thoroughly
-> his brother makes fun of us all the time, saying we should just go out already
-> I nag at him for being so negative all the time and recently I have been having trouble with my brother and I said "sorry for dumping my horrible life on you" and he said "horrible?! that's not postive!" and I said "I just feel bad dumping all of this on you and he said "I wanna listen, I care"
So, do you think he does? Thanks for any help!
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He might like you or he might LIKE you. If you like him, tell him. If he is as good of a friend as you say he is, if he doesn't feel the same way, he'll put it nicely. But on the other hand, even if some guys don't LIKE a girl, they'll still go out with them to give them a chance.
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Hiya, 15, female. I have an older brother, 18 years old. There is a girl in my church who was one of my best friends, we hung out everyday and did all of this fun stuff together, I was her number one on myspace, there was an album of just me and her on her facebook, until she found out she liked my brother. Less and less we would hang out. She would come to my house to be with me but her and my brother would just ditch me and go up into his room. Even when we went to her house to hang out she would text him constantly and act like I wasn't even there. I got so mad I just stopped talking to her. Then, her mom and dad found out she was dating a "bad boy" when her mom wants her with the pastor's son. So, her mother made them break up. Now, since they have broken up I thought they stopped talking until one day my brother didn't log out of his facebook and I saw that they were talking to each other about how great their sex was!! I was shocked that from then on I realized I HATED her and that she only used me for my brother. She stopped talking to me and she said she stopped talking to my brother when in reality she didn't. In church she tries to talk to me like we're still "best friends" but I can't even look at her without wanting to strangle her. Now, I kinda got over it until my mom told me that she was messaged by this girl on facebook last night, she said she got a new phone, she doesn't know how I feel about her but I've been on her mind a lot, then she gave my mom her new cell number and told her to give it to me. I don't want this girl in my life anymore! What do I do? (link)
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The thing i would suggest is to tell her how you feel in an email or letter. It seems to me that she just happened to fall in love with your brother while being your friend. If you think you should be her friend, I would suggest being her friend only through your brother.
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Ok, so in my sleep I moan really sexually, really loudly and I toss and turn a lot and I don't sleep consistently...
Like, I'll get a few hours(if that) at a time, then I wake up abruptly then can't get back to sleep for hours...
Is there anything I can do or take to fix this because it's really giving me the shits and it freaking my boyfriend out a little.
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Sleeping pills. I know that some people don't like the side affects but they do help.
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I am fourteen, and my best friend has been really mean to me, she punches me in the stomach, pressure points me, squeezes my arm, and it's her way to take out her anger!! The other day she broke into my other best friends locker and tried to steal her gum! I don't want to rat her out, but I need to get her controlled!!
She rammed her violin into me because I didn't give her the answers to our math test! I told her she needs to figure it out, it's your test. Was i right about doing that? Should I remain friends with her? What do I tell her? How do I tell her? Please help me!! (link)
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Look,this sort of thing happens all the time. The thing to do is just tell her how you feel. If she stops then stay friends with her. But if she doesn't, you'll have to let her go. Telling friends how you feel is hard. I suggest writing an email. About the tests and breaking into lockers, you have to tell her by cheating she's only hurting herself, and telling on your friend to an adult may seem bad but this has to stop if you're unhappy.
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