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falling for him :/
hey so i think i'm falling for this guy i've been texting for a few weeks. we've only hung out once but he's really fun to talk to we have a lot in common and hes cute :) haha. but yeah my friend dated him for like a week 2 years ago and she said he's a player. his facebook says hes looking for a relationship though...and 2 years is alot to change right? all of my relationships have been 6+ months, i'm not into hookups and stuff, i like to mean something when i do stuff with a guy. i can see him as a player but i know alot of guys that were players then they starting dating a girl and have been together for quite awhile. idk should i chance this? we're suppose to go out this weekend lol thankss
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alrighty so your friend says he's a player. it could be that she's not over him & is simply trying to make you uninterested in him. & if it was for a week then she must not have enough time to seriously get to know him. even if he was a player, people change. you shouldn't listen to other people, from your own opinion of him. i say go for it(: just don't trust him 100% until your sure of it.
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Don't believe everything you hear i wouldn't go by
what your friend said about him being a player the only way you'll know if he truely is...is if you find out for yourself yes i say go for it take the chance it's worth a shot you both having alot in common is a advantage for you seeing as you'll have
more to talk about & you'll have better conversations him dating your friend is in the past
& yes 2 years is alot of time to change yes you should totally go for it otherwise you'll probably end up regretting it later on and you will be wishing you would of taken a chance & done something about it(:
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yesss ! go for it ! give him a chance :] dont just go by what other people say. everyone deserves a fair game. who knows, maybe you both will end up with a happy ending.. ;]
and yes, 2 years is a long time for someone to mature and change. you cant base him off of how he was with your friend a couple years ago, everyone has the potential to change, and maybe he did.. but youll never know if you never see :] yuh know ? and if you get the feeling that he is a playaa, then let that be the only time; the one time, you guys hang out.
youll know if its right or not and if the chemistry is there. and dont go far the first time [not that i think you would] but if hes a "playaa" like your friend portrays him to be, he'll try something. thats really the only thing you have to watch out for.
but i say go ahead, have some fun :] ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbx me, good luck. xxo.
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