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18/m. You've probabaly heard this story before, but oh well.
I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks before christmas.We had been going out for 6months prior. I thought that the relationship was really not working out. She thought the same but she didnt want to break up. After breaking up, she was rather depressed, you could see it in her face, and was crying a few days after.
On christmas eve, we met up to exchange presents which we bought before breaking up, and had breakup sex (probabaly not a good idea now that i think about it).
Before we started going out, she liked this other guy, jack. So the other day, i found out (on facebook) that she's going out with jack. Im sort of feeling the whole "now that you cant have her, you want her". Im not even sure that i want her, i guess im just confused that she's going out with him, just 2months after we broke up. Im not really sure what i think...abit of jealousy i think.
So whats your opinion. Am i right for being jealous, or feeling this? obviousely i cant do anything about it. Hope you can help, and sorry if its long. Thanks in advance.
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i get where your coming from. i broke up with my boyfriend a little while ago. i thought i was fine, i still wanted to be friends. so we texted alot & he had some girls name on his signature, so i got verrry jealous. & then i missed him more & more so i asked him back out & he jumped at the offer. now we're happier then ever. we have more fun, sex is funner, & i feel so much more in love. jealousy is normal,if you two still talk, tell her how you feel. to me it seems like you want her back.
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hey so i think i'm falling for this guy i've been texting for a few weeks. we've only hung out once but he's really fun to talk to we have a lot in common and hes cute :) haha. but yeah my friend dated him for like a week 2 years ago and she said he's a player. his facebook says hes looking for a relationship though...and 2 years is alot to change right? all of my relationships have been 6+ months, i'm not into hookups and stuff, i like to mean something when i do stuff with a guy. i can see him as a player but i know alot of guys that were players then they starting dating a girl and have been together for quite awhile. idk should i chance this? we're suppose to go out this weekend lol thankss (link)
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alrighty so your friend says he's a player. it could be that she's not over him & is simply trying to make you uninterested in him. & if it was for a week then she must not have enough time to seriously get to know him. even if he was a player, people change. you shouldn't listen to other people, from your own opinion of him. i say go for it(: just don't trust him 100% until your sure of it.
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