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me and a kid in school


Question Posted Monday February 22 2010, 4:31 pm

i need help. there is a boy in school and we never met i am home schooled and so is he. we had a live lesson and at the end is student chat he wants to be my bf. i didn't know at first and now i do want to be his gf. i have sent him messages that i want to be his gf over the past 2 weeks. he is not answering me. what can i do i want and need a bf i am desperate what should i do right now i just sent him 3 messages today already. i need help.

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kiran answered Tuesday February 23 2010, 1:47 am:
Well even if you are desperate. Just don't act like it. You've sent him enough messages already. He'll eventually get them and if he realizes you stopped he might reply back. He was into you, so just give it some time. If it happens it happens. Good luck!

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foxylady answered Monday February 22 2010, 10:55 pm:
Even if you are desperate to have a boyfriend, you should never show it. What is meant to be will be. You already told him that you like him, if he wants to be your boyfriend, then let him come to you. Give him time to make up his own mind. When young ladies portray themselves as desperate individuals some guys take full advantage of that. They sometimes feel like that you will do whatever it takes or whatever they want you to do just to keep them. There is no need to rush or be desperate. Just relax, take a chill pill. Sometimes things happen for a reason. If he doesn't want you, maybe that is God's plan. He may not be the right guy for you, God may have someone better all lined up for you. Just wait, and be patient. The right guy will come along and you will know when it is true love.

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MissYMelisS answered Monday February 22 2010, 8:43 pm:
Sounds to me like you scared him off with your desperation. You said it yourself your desperate to have a boyfriend.

You should honestly just lay off and not message him and see if he contacts you any time soon, otherwise if you continue to annoy him he might never talk to you again.

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