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I hate being a girl
being a girl relly sucks i would rather be a guy, i love to be outside and hang in the woods, I dont even want to have sex ever, it grosses me out i hve been in plenty relationships with men but i dont wanna have my period nd i hate having boobs and having to do my hair all of the time is this normal????
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What you describe is atypical, but I wouldn't call it abnormal.
Allow me to point out that with the exception of the period and having breasts, everything you mention is easily dealt with. You love being outside in the woods? Go for it, who says you have to be male to do that? You don't want to have sex? Then don't! You don't like doing your hair? Cut it short!
Short of surgery, you can't change your inherently feminine biological features. But you can DO whatever you like, and to hell with traditional gender roles.
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Well theres two ways to look at this.
The first one is you could be suffering symptoms of
G.I.D. or Gender Identity Disorder. This basically means that you were born a female, have a females body, but in your heart you believe you should have been a male. Although not common, it happens and I actually have a friend who is dating someone with GID right now.
You can go through hormone treatments or even go all the way and get a sex change.
The Second thing is you might just feel insecure about being a girl. Sex can be pretty frightening and also viewed as disgusting. I mean lets be serious here theres a 180+ pound sweating grunting man on top of you!
Depending on your age you could just be a little insecure or not comfortable in your own skin yet.
If your younger i would suggest waiting until you get a little older to decide if you really hate being a girl. If your already older well then you should probably start looking at other options and do some research on GID.
Good luck
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i dont think you hate being a girl, you just hate the responsibilities of it, and the things that come with being a girl.
sex grosses a lot of people out, and some people wait until they're married to have it. dont be so concerned about that.
a lot of girls like the woods, thats a unisex trait, meaning, boys and girls can like it. there isnt a rule saying only boys can like this, and only girls can like that.
all girls hate having their period. ill bet you not one girl on her enjoys having her period. with the cramps and pmsing, no one can enjoy that. the boobs thing, i like my boobs. do you not like them because you are concerned about what boys think of them? do you want them bigger/smaller? do you think boys judge you on how big they are? thats a common reason not to like your boobs.
i think y9u'll be fine, just find your inner self and tell yourself you dont want to change. besides, its expensive and very painful.
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