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Never want have sex
The idea having sex just grosses me out, it looks disgusting, I was sexually abused b4 nd luckily it did not led to anything else. could this have something to do with it, im a female
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yes, because you were sexually abused, this could play a big part in you not liking the idea of sex. although this may vary on your age, it is alos the way you view sex and have viewed it since you were sexually abused.
im sorry you were sexually abused :[ that must have bee a terrible experience, and if you seek help, sex may not seem so bad or disgusting in the future and you can get help. however, everyone thinks of sex differently. even people who have never been exposed to it or were never abused may think its gross. but that can be based on maturity level and such things.
but yes, i do believe that you being sexually abused in the past has affected you with this topic. you associate sex with being sexually abused, whether you realize it or not.
and if you dont want to have sex, then dont. you dont NEED it, your body can live without it. its really just your preference in the end.
good luck, hang in there, and i hope i helped. if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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Because you were sexually abused when you were young, the abuse has left its imprint on your brain.
Imagine a rose bush growing with a weed growing beside it. The weed combines with the rose and becomes a part of it, and it stays attached to it unless something removes it.
Same applies to you. The abuse is a part of you and has influenced your outlook on sex and relationships. You need treatment (therapy, counseling, etc.) to deal with it and remove the proverbial weed.
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Sometimes people are just grossed out about it. I can have to do with your age if your young and inexperienced. But i would say being sexually abused definitely plays a role on how you view things. Some take it the opposite way and become a little too involved in sexual activities.
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