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major help, please!
16/f
so ive been dating this guy for 5 months and we have done things like fingering, hand job and hes played with my boobs. while lately he has been kinda rough when he plays with my boobs and i usually dont mind it cause it just hurts alittle. but today he was doing it really hard and it only hurt alittle but after i went to the bathroom and found red spots around my boobs and i know its cause he was squeezing them too hard. so i told him just cause i thought he should know. so my question is, how do i not make him feel bad about it? i mean i love when he plays with them but he said that now since he knows this he is gonna stop completely and i guess he should but i like that and we dont wanna have sex and playing with em turns me on so idk. should we stop all together or should i just tell him to be gentle with me??
i would gladly appreciate any advice.
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Tell him he can still play, but if he gets too rough remind him gently that they are, in fact, attached to your body. It's a common guy problem; they don't realize how much abuse breasts can and can't take.
If it makes you happy, keep doing it! It's a zero risk activity... except for a few minor bruises, that is ;)
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well if you like it... why would he stop doing it??
if he's your boyfriend, he would want to do anything to make you feel good.
just let him know how good it feels to you and how badly you want him to keep doing it. but say "just as a reminder though, i don't like it when you do it too hard"
when you tell him that you like it, smile.
good luck :)
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