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is that normal?
17/f
is it normal for me not to like anything going up my vagina??
like i refuse to wear tampons, and i refuse to get fingered. I dont want to have sex until i'm comfortable with something going up there.
but is that weird? like for a person my age?
also, i've tried sticking things up there like a tampon or a finger, but it hurts soooooooooooooooo badly everytime it gets to about half an inch. whats wrong with me? :( i feel so different.. its embarassing cause i'm 17.
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No worries there is nothing wrong with you. It could be many things that might make you hurt though. Im not sure what kind of pain you are having but it could just be your hymen hasnt been broken?? Maybe its thick, everyones is different. or perhaps it could just be the thought of putting something up there tenses you up. My advice is to google this. You might be surprised but many other people have this situation too. If all else fails then i suggest you see a doctor:)
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I don't think you should be embarrassed & I think it is great that you are not going to have sex until you are comfortable with it.
That being said, usually it is uncomfortable at first, because you aren't used to it. It usually gets better the more you do it, not I am not saying that you should force yourself to do anything you aren't comfortable with. If you continue to try & it continues to hurt, then maybe you can go to talk to your gynocologist & get her opinion on it, Im sure he/she will be a great source of info.
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