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my boyfriends parents
Okay so im 17 and my boyfriend is gonna be 18 in a month , his parents are christian , theyre wayyy overly religious . we've been dating for almost a year and we still have to sneak around to even talk to eachother outside of school .They tell him that hes selfish and he's " invading my purity " , personally i find that hillarious. He always says he doesnt even feel like part of the family because of how they treat him , he also has a twin brother who isnt aloud to date either . Its like shes a puppet master and hes the puppet , its truly sad. Heres the kicker , she got pregnant with my boyfriend and his brother when she was 19 , so obviously shes tryin to prevent him from making the same mistakes as she did but in reality shess just making him want to rebel. She's trying to move to cananda and get my boyfriend his citizenship there , they wouldnt move till hes 20 and hes gonna try and move out but he doesnt have a job and i want him to go to college and get a good education but we're afraid if he moves out they wont pay for it , i care about him so much and it seems like he really wants this to , it kills him to live in the same house as this nut job and it kills me to watch him so depressed everyday . Ugh , what should i do ?
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Hmm well here's what I can say- don't get involved. If you talk to his mom about this, or influence him
to do something, it's just going to make everything worse and it's going to cause drama. What if he and his mom have a huge fight about this? His mom is going to blame you because she will think that you had something to
do with this. So best bet- stay safe and don't get involved. This is between them and their family. Let them
solve this out. The only thing you can really do is just be there for your boyfriend and try to make him the happiest he can be. Try doing something really nice for him. Like take him
to a surprise dinner. I hope everything goes well for you guys.
Message me if you need ANYTHING else. I mean it :)
-volleyball2150
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