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Ok, I do remember it all now.
Like I said before, this is really hard to give advice on, because it seems alot like a situation that everyone should just want to try to forget ever happened.
But.
Someday he will have kids, or be around kids. What if he does something to them, and gets away with it? What if everyone believes him because they stick with the "he's a good guy, he could never do this to anyone!" line that you're telling yourself constantly?
Thats my perspective. I can't make these decisions for you, but were I you I'd have told your mother. Same sex parents always have an easier time understanding what their kids might specifically be feeling at the moment and getting whats going on with you. But I'm not you, and I get your hesitation.
I just...
No one deserves to have what happened to you, or to be put in your situation now. But no one is so good a person that they deserve to get away with it.
You can put it forward as I have. You want to make sure that someone besides you knew what he was capable of, so that if history repeats itself he can't hide behind "I'd never do anything like that". Someone will know he has.
I know you love him, but he did something terrible, and you are too far buried in denial to know if he could do it again.
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