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My heart hurts
How do I get over a guy that I really really like? You see we went out for 7 months and then he broke up with me and went out with my 'friend', we've been distant although we're trying to be friends. Now he has a new girlfriend who he doesn't really care to go out with or not...Idk wut to do. It makes my heart hurt and I want it to stop.
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Sorry for the delay in answering... I was off sick for a bit.
The trick to this is a complete switch in your thinking. When you see him with this new girl, you think, "Oh, I'd be so much happier if I was in her place!" Instead, you need to be thinking "Been there, done that."
This guy is just a guy, and not a very nice one at that, if he's going to dump you and start dating one of your friends. You're not missing out on anything by not being in a relationship with him, even if he was the one who did the breaking up. There are plenty more guys out there, and higher quality ones too!
Take a break from guys. Don't even think about dating for a few months. Enjoy the single life, hang out with your girls, and think about everything that you are glad you have now that he's out of the way.
It's all in how you spin the situation.
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