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My mom is into drama big time!! and is immature,she is also two-faced and is a very negative.She even talks crap about me and my brother's and think's its ok.She always twists and makes up storys about me and my brothers too tell people.You can't talk to her about anything because she runs and tells everyone what you tell her she cant keep things to herself.She called my nephew stupid and thought it was okay.you cant tell her how you feel because she doesnt care,she'll just say your crazy
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Ugh, I know exactly how you feel. I don't trust my mother at ALL when it comes to personal stuff sometimes because the rest of my family finds out the next day. I mean she doesn't do it with seriously personal things, but if I have a boyfriend she'll go and tell my family, maybe it's just because she's excited who knows.
My suggestion is don't confide in her about anything of importance (talk to your friends or dad if you can) It's obvious there's something going on with her to make her be so rude to people she calls family, especially her own children.
My mother can also be very negative and judgmental, but she's working on it. Every time I say something it seems to some what get through to her that she's being really mean to people she hasn't even met, or judging them before even talking to them.
Just let your mom how mean she's being and if that doesn't work, then there's not too much you can do except just let her do her thing, just learn from your mother's attitude and realize it's not the way to be in life. She needs to know it's her family that she's insulting, ask her why she even had kids if all she's going to do is shit-talk them and be immature.
I think you're already a better person for knowing what she does is wrong, and you're obviously a lot more secure about yourself than she is about herself. I also think you're way more mature. The only way to get through to people who are into drama is to ignore what they say, eventually without having anyone to say these things to, she'll get over it.
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It really stinks that you have to live with that. I think the best thing you can do is to be the most positive person you can be. Be everything that she is not. And try to love her anyways. She is your mom. You don't have to talk to her about everything but you should try to respect her as much as possible. If you can, find another female roll model who might be able to help you and talk to you when your mom cannot. Perhaps your aunt?
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