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should i? or is this a mistake?
i'm really thinking about going down south for college. (i live in ct right now) the reasons for this is because my boyfriend, the love of my life who i've been dating for the past 3 years broke up with me...i've been hurt in my life but this time i was completely broken. what makes it even harder for me is knowing that he's going through depression. he's become suicidal because of his parents getting divorced and his mom cheating. i feel absolutely terrible and i told him i'd always be there for him. however things are hard because he lives a half hour away from me but he knows he can talk to me, and he does. i feel bad saying this but his depression has kind of rubbed of on me. i've been having suicidal dreams lately and i'm not happy where i am. i hate the cold and i hate the life i'm living right now. i'm just not happy. things remind me of him and how we used to be so happy together. i think that maybe if i go to school down south i can start a whole new life and i won't be reminded of me and my ex being together as much. i will still be his friend and i'll still talk to him and be there for him but i need to start something new. i want a new life and i want to be happy. and i love beaches and warm weather. do you think i should go?
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Have you ever heard that old saying " Sometimes a change is as good as a rest". Go for it. Maybe this is your body telling you that you need a change. If you hate it, move back. But at least you'll know that you tried something different and it wasn't for you. But if you love it, you'll always be proud of yourself for taking the risk. And sometimes that's just the thing to help get over a broken heart. Have fun, try new things, and enjoy the beach!
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Its really up to you...then again you can't have one person make you feel this way. You have the right to control how you feel by what you do in your daily routine. When my ex broke up with me I was heartbroken and thought I was lost...but it made me realize how I have to control how I feel. I think you need to start fresh and you need to do whatever that maybe. Maybe you just need to get away from him because his depression is rubbing off on you. Maybe you should talk to someone at school, your parents, or even your friends. It sounds to me as though the kid has baggage which is unfortunate but their not your problems to deal with and its too much to ask of someone. You need to do whats best for you and whats going to make you happy in the long run! Good luck!
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Yes i do think you should go if you think it will make you happier then go for it because if you don't you'll end up regretting it and you'll continue feeling sad only you can make changes in your life nobody elese your in control if you don't like something change whatever you don't like until your satisified yes you will start a new life down there and you'll probably meet new friends experience new things so yes i say you should totally go for it(:
Good luck!
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