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After 3 years, dad want's back into my life?
Yeah, after 3 years of not seeing him, my dad got arrested and I went to see him in prison. When he saw me & my sisters, he was so suprised. He said that he wanted to get back into our lives, and i'm cool with that. But, I'm worried that he will break my sisters' hearts by leaving again. I don't want that. I guess the question is, is it a good idea to give him a second chance, after he left once?
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Second chances are a good thing but you should most definitely be cautious. I have been in a similar situation so I can understand your dilemma. It's hard to keep a parent out of a child's life though. Some people can change. Hopefully your father is one of them.
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Honestly sweet heart. My son is three years old. His father was in and out of his life. So i mad him stay out of his life because I dont want my son hurt. Now obviously you know your father he was gone for a reason even though it was a stupid reason. Maybe you should talk to him alone and tell him you want him to be in all of your life you just dont want h im to leave again and break all of your heart.
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I all always agree of giving people chances ,especially if its someone close to your heart like your dad.but take it easy with your dad,because if yuo want a good realationship,trust me i want you two but yuo need to realise not evrything might work a out so just be careful because coming out jail for your dad aint easy so just wacth his movements but srtill enjoy the extra company and always be weary.
xoxo
rh11
ps:be carefull.....
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If your dad was a friend, that would be different and not as important, but hes a huge part of your life. I think that you should give him a second chance, everyone makes mistakes, and this is an opportunity for you guys to start over. But you need to tell him how you are feeling, and how you felt when he left, this will bond you guys, and it will show him how much of an impact it really had on you. Everything will work out, dont worry! Good luck!
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