old friend( not anymore) flirting with my girlfriend
Question Posted Sunday December 20 2009, 9:28 pm
13/m
ok so i met this girl through one of her other friends and as soon as we met we really hit it off.now we both like each other, and this afternoon im going over to her house for a while, and im going to ask her out (we've already kissed and stuff). now one of my friends we'll call mitchell gave this other guy we'll call adam her email address n they were talking on msn, and i used to be best friends with adam about a year ago but he started being a real ****head so i stopped talking to him. well mitchell told me that adam he started cracking onto her, now i know that he knows i like her, and im worried that she might start liking him instead, but im pretty sure that she won't,
now my question.. what could i do to make her stay with me, and not pay attention to adam, should i tell her how i feel about him? or something like that.
orphans answered Monday December 21 2009, 11:44 pm: Honesty is the key. Being honest is always the first thing a girl looks for in a relationship. Problem is, how are you supposed to be honest with her, without having her think you are jealous.
For starters, don't tell her how you feel about Adam. No girl wants her boyfriend to control who she hangs out with or who she doesn't hang out with. Last thing a girl wants is a controlling boyfriend. secondly, ask her out before Adam does. Even if you think she might not like him, you never know what odd thing will come into the picture.
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