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He won't talk to me
I have known this guy on my work. We became very close friends and we were like always together during our work. Our coworkers are always telling us that we're hiding something from them. They thought that we were lovers but we are not. They always tell me that this guy likes me because he always look at me and that they can see it in his eyes. But I'm not thinking that way because I know that he's just sweet to everyone. Sometimes when he is talking to my friends, he is calling them by my name like "Hey Dahlia, oh sorry I mean Katie".. I want to believe that this guy likes me but I don't want to expect. I can feel it sometimes that I am special to him but I just don't want to misunderstood what he's doing. He was always talking to me, always making me smile when I'm sad and just sweet.
I resigned on my work last week. After that he didn't talk to me again. He said that I'm just too rude. Our workmates told me that he's mad at me. Until now, he doesn't talk to me. I miss him and I just realized by now that I have already fallen for him. I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same. Help me!! Thank you so much in advanced..
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Well first of all your co-workers may not ALWAYS be telling the truth, but then again they could be. I would maybe just walk right up to him and talk to him yourself. It seemes like he is a sweet guy, and if you have really fallen for him, it should be worth it. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I don't know what the situation was, of course, but I don't know the nature of why you quit your job. Was it because of this gentleman or was it due to other circumstances? If you quit and did not tell him, he may feel hurt that you did not tell him, since he thought you to be friends.
Your next course of action lies in the answer to questions like these: Do you really want to pursue a romantic relationship with this gentleman, or do you just miss having a friendship with him? If you are really interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with him, then do it, but work on a friendship first. If he has feelings for you or is interested in dating you, then those intentions will develop after the friendship is established. If not, you are still friends and nothing is lost, except for your disappointment, but that is still better than losing a friend, in my opinion.
If you quit your job and did not let him know you were, you could apologize to him for not making him aware and that you want to make it up to him. Tell him you value your friendship and would like to keep it.
I hope this helps you out and I hope everything works out for you!
-Charlotte
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